Love, Sex & Relationships
I was a Christian woman addicted to porn
The first memory I have of watching pornography is when I was 11 years old. It's amazing that I didn't even have the vocabulary to describe what I was witnessing, yet the innocence of my brain and body were gone in an instant. I didn't know it then, but my body and...
The Church and Marriage: Why Can’t We Talk About Sex?
The Church is supposed to be a haven for people. It is often said that the church house is like a hospital, and the believers are the patients searching for healing. If you believe that to be at least somewhat true, then I think we should talk about what spiritual...
3 Things to Consider When Dating a Divorced Christian
I seriously dated a brother in Christ last year who happened to be a divorcée. Before then, I never thought much about divorce–let alone remarriage. Frankly, I didn’t know what either of these meant from a faith-based perspective. I honestly didn’t think it mattered....
CAN YOU LOVE AUTHENTICALLY IF YOU WERE RAISED TO BE TOXIC?
It’s not easy to be hated by the person who is supposed to love you most, and unfortunately, being toxic has become normalized in our culture. Many see misdirected aggravation, gaslighting, physical abuse, and more as “love tactics.” When a child only knows pain as a...
10 Ways to Recognize a Good Guy
My Non-Negotiables for a Successful Relationship.
Attention Singles: Are You Tired of E.Y.S. During the Holidays?
E.Y.S., or “Explain Your Singleness,” is a social epidemic that largely plagues Christian singles. However, it most aggressively attacks all singles during the holiday season. According to my non-scientific opinion, an estimated 99.9%* of single men and women are...
5 Questions Many Christians Forget to Ask While Dating
There are the usual questions, and then, there are some questions that should never be overlooked while dating.
6 Things to Do While Waiting for Your Boaz
Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, which can sometimes be difficult for single women who are still waiting for their “Boaz” to come along and sweep them off their feet.
10 Reasons I’m Glad I was a Virgin When I Married
One man shares why he’s happy he maintained abstinence until marriage in hopes encouraging young people to think carefully about sex and inspire those remaining abstinent until marriage.
Why Unmarried Christians Are Having Sex
With so many single adults deciding that abstinence is unrealistic, perhaps the church’s message about sexual purity is incomplete. True love doesn’t wait; it develops.