Panhandlers and beggars seem to bombard us in the city. They wash our windshields at stoplights and then come to our windows expecting payment. They cling to ragtag cardboard signs and approach us with forlorn faces. Some are missing limbs. They sit in wheelchairs holding dirty cups. Some are in obvious need. We can tell by looking in their eyes that they truly are blind or hungry or ill.
What should we do?
As the leader of a large organization that specializes in ministry among the homeless, let me give you my expert opinion: I don’t know!
I think God gives us these dilemmas to cause us to rely on the compassion of Christ he has implanted in our hearts. Coming face to face with someone who asks us for money is an opportunity to be led by the Holy Spirit, instead of being driven by guilt or obligation or the desire to bolster our own ego as a “generous person.” There is no simple answer.
Jesus said in Luke 6:30 that we are to give to everyone who asks of us. Most of us are hesitant to do that because we are afraid that we will be taken advantage of. Perhaps the recipient of our charity will use our hard-earned cash for booze or drugs. Surely giving to someone who would use our money for those purposes would not be in anyone’s best interest, would it? Yet, the directive is clear. We are to give without question and without judgment.
While we don’t want to contribute to someone’s addiction, it is helpful to understand that people who are living on the street usually do not have access to appropriate pain medicine, mental health counseling, or the gentle pacifiers such as chocolate and ice cream that we turn to when we need a lift. Who are we to judge them for how they spend money? I certainly have not always made the best decisions with the money that God sends my way. Yet God keeps giving to me.
On the other hand, our gifts do not always have to be cash. I urge people to give financial gifts to organizations that specialize in wise care for the under-resourced — like Sunshine Gospel Ministries, Circle Urban Ministries, or my own Breakthrough Ministries — and then get involved by volunteering to help those ministries. Then, when asked for cash, we can respond like Peter and John did when confronted by the crippled beggar. “Silver or gold I do not have, but what I have I give you. In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, walk” (Acts 3:1-10).
A financial gift to a mission or an organization that provides opportunities for the homeless will help men and women who have been crippled by life get back on their feet and — in the name of Jesus Christ — walk a new walk. As stewards of the resources God entrusts to us, we want to make sure our gifts to the poor are invested wisely.
Instead of giving cash to people on the street, we can give directions, or perhaps a ride, to the nearest ministry that provides loving care in the name of Christ. Like the Good Samaritan that Jesus described in Luke 10, we can transport those who are battered and broken to the nearest rehab center and pay for their rehabilitation.
I have a friend who always gives people exactly what they ask for. If they ask for change, he gives them change. If they ask for a couple of dollars, he gives them a couple of dollars. He says that in the grand scheme of things, considering his budget for giving to the poor, the amount of money he hands out is actually relatively small. He thinks we make a bigger deal of being taken advantage of than we should. After all, Jesus let himself be stripped, beaten, and hung on a cross unjustly to show his great love. It is not likely that we will ever experience that much injustice in our giving to the poor.
The June 13th entry in Oswald Chambers’s great My Utmost for His Highest reads, “Never make a principle out of your experience; let God be as original with other people as He is with you.” So, again, we are asked to let the Spirit guide our practices when we come face to face with someone asking us for money.
One thing I am quite certain about is this: When I stand before God in the judgment, I don’t think he is going to drill me about how smart and frugal I was when I was face to face with someone who asked me for money. I doubt that God will point out how proud he is of me that I didn’t let myself get scammed by someone who was lying to get a few bucks out of me.
God is more likely to say something like this: “I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me…. I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.”
Wow. That was powerful. And convicting. And will be shared with my friends.
I saw a video clip on a blog recently that shared a similar message…why are we so quick to assume that homeless people are all drug abusers and swindlers. If we made those assumptions about any other class of people, someone would call us out and show us the error of our ways. But when we assign those character traits to the homeless, many people just nod in agreement.
May we all see the light of God’s love for us and apply the same love to those who have not shared in the opportunities we have been so blessed to receive.
When I’m going downtown or to an area where I’m bound to encounter panhandlers, I put it in my mind ahead of time that I will not give to any beggars. It’s just too hard to know who’s legitimate and who’s not. I will continue to give to the work of my church and to various charities, but I needed to come to this kind of mental decision personally to clear my conscience and avoid giving to the professional scammers who ply their trade on downtown streets.
Great insights, Arloa! Really fantastic stuff. I recently heard Mike Yankoski share (author of “Under the Overpass”). He lived on the streets for a few months, attempting to understand what it meant to be homeless. One of his comments has stuck with me.
He said that the absolute best thing you can do when someone asks you for money on the streets is to acknowledge their humanity. Look them in the eyes. Smile. Say “I can’t right now” when asked for money. I try to remember this when I am solicited. The worst thing I can do is treat the individuals as if they don’t exist.
Thanks again for the great encouragement. Blessings,
Chris Horst
http://smorgasblurb.wordpress.org
Thanks for this. Don’t you think it is more about OUR heart than those that we give to? And recently it was teaching my kids. A man was by the mall in a suburbia neighborhood with a note saying “please give to help me buy presents for my kids.” I have what I came to in my pocket $20, and told my kids how it is hard to know if the person is being honest, but I choose to think he is because what kind of courage would it take to stand in the cold on the eve of Christmas eve begging? If I am naive, at least my children learn that we are very blessed and able to respond to need. Thanks for acknowledging that these things are never simple. Melody